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my view on the MySpace lawsuit

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to those of you who didn't hear. MySpace was sued by a 14 year old and her mom for $30M. claiming that MySpace failed to protect teens from sexual predators.

"Solis contacted the girl through her MySpace Web site in April, telling her that he was a high school senior who played on the football team, according to the lawsuit.

In May, after a series of e-mails and phone calls, he picked her up at school, took her out to eat and to a movie, then drove her to an apartment complex parking lot in South Austin, where he sexually assaulted her, police said. He was arrested May 19.

The lawsuit includes news reports of other assault cases in which girls were contacted through MySpace. They include a 22-year-old Wisconsin man charged with six counts of sexually assaulting a 14-year-old girl and a 27-year-old Connecticut man accused of sexually assaulting a 13-year-old girl." — read more here.

i believe the responisibilty in this case lies with the parents. if you let your kid surf the web, use IM, chat, webcam, use social networking, etc. without monitoring his use you are an irresponislbe parent.

everytime there is a new technology that enables people to communicate on the internet, there are these cases who make the headlines, and there are calls to restrict use of these technologies. it was the case with bulletin boards, chat rooms, IRC, mailing lists, IM and now social networking. as virtual worlds (e.g. second life, habbo hotel) will get to critical mass it will happen there as well.

the answer in my opinion is not to legislate and regulate, but rather to educate. and this is the role of the parents. they should talks with their kids about the danger of speaking with strangers online, and try to give them tips on how to identify suspicious users. and whenever they have a doubt to come and talk. and whatever relationship you have with your kid (and how much you trust him), from time to time ask him to take a look at the IM buddy list, MySpace buddies, etc.

needless to say i think this lawsuit is without real merit and greedy.

MySpace can enhance its age verificiation, provide monitoring tools to parents and more, but it should not be told to do it by the courts or the legislator.  

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tsella said,

June 21, 2006 @

i thought you were opposed to monitoring childrens use (instead opting for a “circle of trust” kind of thing).

i agree with you on most, but i think raising a kid is more difficult than asking him/her to review his buddy lists. children are bound to have secrets, which they will never want the parent to know of. i know i have had them, i guess you had them as well, and in this day and age, trying to save your kid for himself/herself is bound to lead to an arms race (you install a sniff, he/she circumvents it using secure proxies, etc.).

i dont know what the solution is, and it scares me at times.

avneron said,

June 21, 2006 @

i don’t think installing a sniff or parental control is the solution.
the solution in my opinion is not a technological one, but rather old fashioned real parenting.

i believe parents need to give their kids sufficent “tools” to get around safely in the real and virtual world. and of course there will be secrects, there should be. they just need to be the harmless type..

a parent that is neglecting the task of educating his kids about the real/virtual world dangers, and fails to have a relationship that includes some back and forth communications is likely to put his kid in risk in both worlds.

Jenilee said,

July 23, 2006 @

I think this lawsuit is utterly ridiculous. Would you sue the mall/street/gas station/whereever if you dropped your child off without the knowledge to protect themselves? It boils down to “don’t get in cars with strangers”
When I was 12 my family got the internet. Of course I talked to strangers on it! It made the big world so much smaller and gave me information about the world I never would have had otherwise. However, before I could even get online my parents sat me down and said “No last name, no hometown, no phone number, no e-mail addresses.” Being 12 and not thinking my parents knew everything (which I still don’t believe 12 years later) I was smart enough to realize that they were mostly right (I didn’t see the problem with giving a hotmail address out though :) ) And Look! I’m still in one piece and and thus far never been attacked by an internet predator. I never would have dreamed about meeting some stranger online- I still don’t.
Jeni

“The kid who swallows marbles doesn’t get to grow up to have kids of his own”

Tony said,

December 1, 2006 @

Anyone else having bother with myspace or is it just my pc?
Last couple of days it seems it wont let me download any song from anywhere.
Anyone having same bother - or anyone how to sort it?

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